All endings are also beginnings. We just don't know it at the time...
生命的無奈, 人生的無常,
或許不是我們這年幾能了解的.
看着自己親人離你而去時的痛苦,
又有多少人能明瞭.
或許到你親身體會時,
才會懂得珍惜自己生邊的親人, 情人.
情, 只會因時間和空間而分離.
情, 是不會被遺忘的記憶.
情, 是會永遠活在你心里.
情, 是永恆的回忆.
Its a hard day, seeing my friend in his usual expression, saying "thanks for coming". My heart aches, he's a real man. We pay our respect to his dear mother, peacefully in her slumber. Things might not be the same for him again, but i respect the man for standing tough at this difficult times.
He briefly told us the incident, must be hard to tell us what happen, my heart aches again. And to think he will have repeat this statement to most of his visitors, relatives and friends in the wake, aches me more.
He's real brave, we try not to go into much details, changing the topic after that. Things will be real hard from now on, as good friends, what we can do now is try to be as normal as possible i feel. Not giving the man too much sympathy, as it might be a kind of invisible stress to him. But he knows, we will always be supporting him, thats what friends are for.
"Death does not just take someone, it misses someone else, and in the small distance between being taken and being missed, lives are changed."
For that i only wishes him things will go on smoothly, from now on. That missing his mother is alright, but things have to go on. That he will understand his mother's love and nurtured from it, be strong and overcome this difficulty. Things might change, lives might be changed, but true friendship, kinship and love doesnt.
This is not the end, but just a new beginning for him, live your life to the better from the will of her. 加油!